Self Worth: Know Your Value In A Relationship! And Why You Need To Value Yourself More!
We've all been there -- feeling victimized by a friend, a boss or a lover who has treated us poorly or unfairly. It's an easy and common tendency to blame the other, make yourself out as the innocent one, while seeking out particular people who will reaffirm that pain body within that encourages a "woe is me" mentality. But if you start to look back and analyze a bit, you may realize that the there is one common denominator in each scenario and situation. That common denominator is you.
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You allow people to treat you the way they do. Your energy, confidence and attitude is the currency that others will transact with. I know many women and men who have settled for less, and simply "accepted" cards dealt because deep inside, they don't believe they deserve more. I'm sure you know of someone who seems to have it all together in their life, but when it come to relationships, they just can't seem to shake the habit of dating douche bags .
1. The quality of all relationships are inevitably tied to our level of self worth.
2. We get what we are willing to settle for in all areas of our lives, especially relationship.
3. Confidence is the single most sexy quality and a very powerful place of attraction.
4. Getting the relationship of your dreams is an inside job. It’s never about another person.
5. Real men are amazing. Real mean want to make their women really happy.
Self-respect and self-esteem play hand in hand with one another. Self-esteem gives you the confidence to succeed and without it you are simply placing limitations on yourself.
You and only you are responsible for your fate. Life is no fun if you spend it hating yourself; this stifles any progress you hope to make. Once your confidence is up, you will stop making the terrible mistake of comparing yourself to others. You will already be comfortable and happy with who you are.
When you love yourself, you take pride in who you and what you have to offer. Too many people place the needs of others before their own, but in order to respect others, you need to meet your own needs first. How can you truly learn to appreciate others if you can’t even appreciate yourself? This is fundamental to personal growth and a concept too many people do not realize.
Know your value and don't accept being treated in a way less than you deserve. Now, I don't mean to start going out there with unrealistic expectations, demands and a sense of entitlement. I am saying that you deserve to be treated the way you treat others, and vice versa. The minute you negotiate your self worth and accept less, you say to the universe that you don't deserve any better, and the vicious cycle/pattern begins. Change for yourself and of course, friends and partners are great mirror reflections that help you grow. But don't change out of the wrong reasons to appease someone or in hopes that they will like you more. If they judge you for who you are now, they aren't your fit. I'll end off with a quote from "Sex and the City" that is an inspiring reminder:
"But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love and well that's just fabulous."
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We've all been there -- feeling victimized by a friend, a boss or a lover who has treated us poorly or unfairly. It's an easy and common tendency to blame the other, make yourself out as the innocent one, while seeking out particular people who will reaffirm that pain body within that encourages a "woe is me" mentality. But if you start to look back and analyze a bit, you may realize that the there is one common denominator in each scenario and situation. That common denominator is you.
You allow people to treat you the way they do. Your energy, confidence and attitude is the currency that others will transact with. I know many women and men who have settled for less, and simply "accepted" cards dealt because deep inside, they don't believe they deserve more. I'm sure you know of someone who seems to have it all together in their life, but when it come to relationships, they just can't seem to shake the habit of dating douche bags .
1. The quality of all relationships are inevitably tied to our level of self worth.
2. We get what we are willing to settle for in all areas of our lives, especially relationship.
3. Confidence is the single most sexy quality and a very powerful place of attraction.
4. Getting the relationship of your dreams is an inside job. It’s never about another person.
5. Real men are amazing. Real mean want to make their women really happy.
Self-respect and self-esteem play hand in hand with one another. Self-esteem gives you the confidence to succeed and without it you are simply placing limitations on yourself.
You and only you are responsible for your fate. Life is no fun if you spend it hating yourself; this stifles any progress you hope to make. Once your confidence is up, you will stop making the terrible mistake of comparing yourself to others. You will already be comfortable and happy with who you are.
When you love yourself, you take pride in who you and what you have to offer. Too many people place the needs of others before their own, but in order to respect others, you need to meet your own needs first. How can you truly learn to appreciate others if you can’t even appreciate yourself? This is fundamental to personal growth and a concept too many people do not realize.
Know your value and don't accept being treated in a way less than you deserve. Now, I don't mean to start going out there with unrealistic expectations, demands and a sense of entitlement. I am saying that you deserve to be treated the way you treat others, and vice versa. The minute you negotiate your self worth and accept less, you say to the universe that you don't deserve any better, and the vicious cycle/pattern begins. Change for yourself and of course, friends and partners are great mirror reflections that help you grow. But don't change out of the wrong reasons to appease someone or in hopes that they will like you more. If they judge you for who you are now, they aren't your fit. I'll end off with a quote from "Sex and the City" that is an inspiring reminder:
"But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love and well that's just fabulous."
If you loved this post, i am sure you'll love my Pick Up Artist Academy Course:
Are you ready and willing to get the best pick up artist skills and mindset you need to attract all the beautiful women you want?
and enroll in Pick Up Artist Academy (pua academy) now if you're prepared to transform your life and meet 90 women in 90 days!
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